My favorite quotes and why I love them || Part II

In the past, I have made a post talking about some of my favorite quotes and what they mean to me - you can find it here if you want. To this day it's one of my favorite posts on this blog and I've been meaning to make a Part II ever since, so I think it's time I made it. And who knows? I may even make a part III one day because I think there are even more quotes worth talking about.

In this post, I will analyze a few more quotes/passages that I love from books that I've read. While in the previous part the quotes were just random, in this one I picked 4 of my favorite quotes that revolve around particular subjects and themes. All of the following passages have something to do with either politics/politicians or war/peace in general. I hope you'll enjoy it as much as I did writing it! So here we go...

"Because something is significantly wrong with a creature that sacrifices its children's lives to settle its differences. [...] But in the end, who does it benefit? No one. The truth is it benefits no one to live in a world where these things happen."

When I first read this line in the Hunger Games series (I can't remember which book) I thought that it was a very nice, true, and insightful quote. I instantly put it amongst my favorites, but it wasn't until a few years later that I developed a deeper connection with it and got to fully understand its weight. Furthermore, as the years pass, this quote becomes more and more personal for me and, as experiences gather, it affects me more and more. This quote describes Katniss' thoughts about the Hunger Games, Snow's regime, and the circumstances of her world in general. Aside from it being a commentary about her world, it can also be applied to our real world as well, which is something that always makes a quote all the more impactful. 

I remember a few years back (after I had read the books) - when the war in Syria was the first thing we would see on the news - seeing images of horror, images of injured, lost, and dead children dying in the streets or being washed ashore, and I was devastated. One of the first things that came to my mind was this particular quote. More recently, with the war that is still going on in Ukraine, the same words came to my mind... "Something is significantly wrong with a creature that sacrifices its children-". It is so painfully true and it not only describes the horrors of war but also talks about human nature and one of its core characteristics; its destructiveness and its tendency to self-destruct. 

This takes me straight to the next quote from the same series...

"But collective thinking is usually short-lived. We are fickle, stupid beings with poor memories and a great gift for self-destruction."

The more I think about it, the more I can see and safely say that Suzanne Collins has a very good grasp on some notions (among which are: war, peace, human nature, trauma, and PTSD) and she is extremely talented in articulating them beautifully. 

Having gone through a couple of significant events of our time myself (a pandemic, an economic crisis, etc) and with the terrifying prospect of a war happening very close to me within my lifetime, makes me understand and appreciate the truth of this quote to its full extent. Now more than ever before I can see and experience that humans are indeed beings with very poor memories that tend to forget the past and not learn from their history and their mistakes which is part of the reason why on many occasions we may circle back to similar conditions that we considered to be over for good, or why we may circle back to unworthy leaders/representatives. 

This can be seen in the Hunger Games as well - more specifically in Mockingjay - when, after everything the people from the districts have been through because of The Hunger Games, many of them are ready to vote on having a new kind of Hunger Games perpetuating the suffering. They set all of their faith in Coin, believing and hoping that she'd be their savior and they were prepared to follow her to unreasonable lengths. Maybe it was their devotion to her, or maybe it was their thirst for revenge, or maybe a combination of both. Whichever the case, they ended up circling back to a very wrong situation and an equally bad leader and many of them were blind to it, forgetting what and who it was that had brought them there.

Collective thinking and action are indeed short-lived and they only last as long as a specific goal or person is there to unite the people, but when this goal is achieved or gone, or when things change in general, then the people that were so far gathered and strong together, scatter like mice, their power scattering with along with their conflicting interests. Whichever the reason may be that makes collective thinking so short-lived, the fact remains that people don't realize (or forget) how very strong they can be when they become a team and act in an organized way, instead of when they remain and act as units. Making any kind of significant change requires the strength and determination of the many when they gather and unite. Big changes rarely ever come from a single person, no matter how valiantly they may battle for it. It's troubling how often and how much we seem to forget that an existing system or regime is only as strong/weak as the people keeping it in power. And oftentimes when people are not what keeps the system/regime in power, then whatever else it is that's keeping it there - whether that is money, connections, or anything else - is not enough and it usually is a pretty fragile system which will eventually and inevitably crumble...

This, in continuation, brings me to the next quote...

"It must be a fragile system if it can be brought down by just a few berries."

This quote is very particular to the Hunger Games, yet, if taken metaphorically it can apply to our lives and real situations easily. We all live within particular political systems and no matter what they are like, they can be stronger or weaker structures. Systems that don't draw their strength from the people, or that don't listen to their wants and needs, systems that derive power from other sources tend to lean more on the fragile side rather than the solid-steady one and they can usually be brought down by something rather small and insignificant like a handful of berries. 

The quote is not only about the Hunger Games in particular or about the berries per se. It's about the nerve of one person to go against the stream, and about the courage of the first few people that decided to rise on their feet and stand together against a dictatorship. These few small berries are the depiction, the very essence of the few small and seemingly insignificant people gathering and finally using their most powerful weapon: their voice. These berries also symbolize the seemingly small causations that can set off a big change. It was something as small as a few berries, or a three-finger salute that woke everyone up and made them start rising up against Snow's oppression and the more Snow fought against it, the closer he got to his own end.

This is part of the reason why such authoritarian regimes can never last long, they will eventually be overturned by the very people they oppress. There can be a few reasons that a system may be fragile, and one of them - and a rather important reason too - is contained in the following quote, this one not from the Hunger Games...

"Voldemort himself created his worst enemy, just as tyrants everywhere do. Have you any idea how much tyrants fear the people they oppress? All of them realize that one day, amongst their many victims, there is sure to be one who rises against them and strikes back." 

This one is from the Harry Potter books, obviously, and it is one of my favorites from all the books in the series. It is undeniably true that tyrants, through their merciless and oppressive ruling usually create their own worst enemies who are usually none other than the very people they oppress. It doesn't take long for people to realize what their rulers are and, even though it may be hard and dangerous for them to react at first, it's inevitable that they will eventually retaliate.

And even though tyrants acknowledge this, it doesn't really help them, because it makes them want to prove it wrong, to prevent such retaliation from happening. And in trying to suppress all uprisings and reactions from the people they end up oppressing them even more, which in turn makes the people even more frustrated and reactive.

Similarly, Voldemort created his own worst enemy simply by trying to extinguish him before he would even have the chance to threaten him. He picked the baby himself, based on nothing more than an obscure prophecy, which he chose to interpret in his own manner. 

Even though Harry wasn't the only option, Voldemort picked him and tried to kill him, and, as we know he failed. As a result, he became obsessed with Harry who was but a child/teenager, and kept persecuting him and trying to destroy him for the rest of his life. He could not understand that his obsession would be his downfall and he failed to realize that the more he struggled to extinguish his worst enemy, the more he would set himself up for failure and the closer that would bring him to his own death. Someone could argue that it was Harry who brought down Voldemort, but, in reality, it was Voldemort himself; he picked the baby, he attacked him and he was the one who kept chasing him until this was the end of him. What's more, Voldemort whom everyone feared, whose name wasn't even spoken aloud, spent the remainder of his existence in fear; always in fear of this one boy, always scared that even more people may try to step up against him.

Similarly, this is how things are with tyrants everywhere, both in fiction and in real life. They pick the people/group of people that they want to target (a particular religious, or ethnic group, or people with a specific trait, etc) and devote themselves o persecuting them, creating this way their own worst enemies. All the time knowing very well and fearing beyond anything else that the oppressed people will rebel and overthrow them, that the very people they have chosen to hate and destroy will be their downfall. Maybe deep down they even know that it wasn't the targeted people, but their own fault that brought them down. It is inevitable that in every such situation, the oppressed will eventually rise up and the victims will fight back.

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It's probably obvious that I love it when books talk about politics and even more I love talking about them when they do. I find that it's always food for thought and you can draw parallels with the real world which is always interesting. It makes you understand better historical events of the past, as well as see where our society may be heading in the future. In my opinion, even though fictional stories take place in fantasy worlds and situations, they can very easily and successfully tackle real-life problems and approach them in a creative and nuanced way.

I loved making this post, both because it gave me the chance to lay out my thoughts about these quotes, but also because it brought me back memories from some of my favorite moments in my favorite books. So, I hope you enjoyed it as much as I did.

Until the next time...

Thanks for reading!

5 Cool Gift Ideas for Bookworms

Being a bookworm myself, I often find myself dreaming of book-related gifts that I'd love to receive. Similarly, when I have to pick such a gift for a friend, I get carried away with the abundance of options! 😍 In this post I gathered my favorite ideas for book-related gifts... So, if you were wondering what gift to give to your book-loving friend (other than a book that is), take a look at the options below... 

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So without further ado... Let's go on...

1. Scented candle: An easy, simple choice that you can't go wrong with. Chances are your bookworm friend loves the smell of old books, libraries, or parchment. Even if they don't care about those scents, they may still have another one they like or another particular candle they burn as they read. It could even be unrelated to books (vanilla, cinnamon, apple, or anything else they like) that they have somehow connected with their reading, or you could even introduce them to an entirely new scent you think they'll enjoy. Even if they don't use candles yet, you could still introduce them to this new routine by giving them this gift, so, as I said, you can't lose.

   

   Old Bookshop Scented Candle
   Cafe Bookish Scent Candle
   Rainy Day Reading Candle
   

   
   
2. Book stamp: I had no idea these existed up until recently when I saw them on a YouTube video and I instantly fell in love with them. You can find a book stamp in all different designs and sizes. And, of course, in a variety of different prices to match your budget. They can be personalized, they are unique, they are memorable and, certainly, your book loving friend will love them!  

   

   See book stamp here

   
   
3. Book-related mug: This is another simple gift that never fails. Most bookworms love to have a drink while reading, whether that is coffee, tea, or something else. Whatever it is, one thing is certain; your friend will enjoy it so much more in a book-related mug. 

   

   "So many books" mug
   

   
   

   

   "Reading" Mug

   
   
4. Bookmarks: Small, simple, and cheap, yet they can be unique and original as any other gift. Even though most bookworms are notorious for using other irrelevant objects as bookmarks, they'll certainly love this gift and, hopefully, use it, against their core instincts. A few years ago, a friend of mine gave me as a gift a metallic bookmark that had engraved on it the 50 books you should read before you die and I instantly loved it! To this day it's one of my favorite things!

   

   Bookmarks
   

   
   

   

   My favorite bookmark
   

   
   
5. Bookends: Useful, tasteful, and unique. You can find book ends for all tastes and budgets and, surely, almost any bookworm would like them and find them useful. Below you can see a couple of my favorite choices. 

   

   "Book" bookend
   

   
   

   

   "Cat" bookends

   
   

There are surely many more ideas out there as well that you can explore. You can search and find the perfect gift for your friend, but these were some of my favorite picks. I hope I've given you some cool ideas. Feel free to share your ideas for book related gifts, or some of your favorite gifts that you have received. I'd love to hear about it!

"Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince" || Book Review & Book to Movie Comparison

As you read this series, Harry's story has been a part of you, his world a part of yours, and, by this point, the story has not only become a part of you, but it gets deep under your skin in a way that you couldn't even imagine. And, if you ask me, this is a trait of meaningful and powerful storytelling.

***NON-SPOILER SECTION***

It took me 5 months but I'm finally done with it! And while it took me a long time to read, that doesn't mean I did not enjoy it. Quite the contrary, I absolutely loved the Half-Blood Prince more than the previous books in the series. If you'd like to see what I thought of the previous book in the series, before reading my - admittedly huge review - of this one, you can find the full review here.

In the time after I had finished the book, when I was thinking about it, I was struggling to find anything wrong with it, anything that bothered me or that I'd like to change, but I couldn't find anything negative, to say or anything I'd like to change about it. This book managed to stay in my mind after it was over and, even more, it managed to leave me with positive impressions only. Perhaps, the only thing that was not great about the Half-Blood Prince would have to be the movie that was inspired by it and which completely butchered the source material.

"The Half-Blood Prince" may be a big book, but it is in no way boring or tiring. It doesn't stall, it doesn't drag out with minor, unimportant details, and it doesn't sway from the subject. Conversely, it hits the subject right to the core, without hesitation and delivers what it promises. The book is thick with plot and dense with story, conflict, and suspense. 

The pacing is great and the story's flow is smooth and consistent. The characters and the relationships between them evolve naturally and get more interesting as the story progresses. The writing and storytelling are artistic. The book has a very strong beginning and a very engaging ending that leaves you wanting more, it leaves you thirsty to just go to the next one immediately. 

***SPOILERS AHEAD*** 

This book is captivating from its very first moments! The first chapter is incredibly intriguing and it doesn't even include one of the main characters! The only familiar character in the first chapter is Fudge, a guy we don't even like as readers, while the other characters are new and not of major importance. Yet, this chapter not only gets all the new, significant information through successfully, but it does so in an intriguing way. It sucks you in and it manages to have you on the edge of your seat from the first pages.

Then, there's the second chapter which is one of the best things I've read in the whole series in general! It's perfect; full of mystery, darkness, conflict, and suspense. It has so many layers - not all of which can be understood in a first read - so much subtext hidden between the lines, and at the same time, it's artistically written! All that I can say about this chapter is that I read it and then went back to reread it because once was not enough! What's more, is that the more I read it, the more things I understood, and the experience was a bit different each time, even if the text remained the same. The tension had me on the edge and I kept thinking how it would have felt if I hadn't been familiar with the story. 

This is actually one of the things that I find magical about this book. There's so much subtext, so many things are implied, yet left unspoken, that the whole context behind each and every scene can change, it can be perceived differently depending on how much you know (or maybe even suspect?) about the story. Every bit of dialogue, every interaction hides a hidden meaning behind what is obvious in a first read. This is probably one of the reasons that make the coming plot twist one of the - in my opinion - best plot twists in fiction. There are other reasons for it as well, but this is a subject for a different post (which I will probably be making after I'm done with the whole series). 😉

One of my favorite things about this book has to be Tom Riddle's backstory and the flashbacks of his life. We finally get to see his background; where he came from, how and why he came to be Voldemort, why he believed what he believed and did what he did. And, to be honest, I felt that most of it made sense. Now, don't get me wrong, killing people doesn't make sense in general, but it makes sense for him, for his character and life. The fact that he became like this, that he ended up to his conclusions about life, death, family, and love (or the lack thereof) makes absolute sense if you look at his past experiences, his identity, his upbringing, and his perception about others, about the world and, most importantly, about himself. None of it is justifiable, but you can see why and how it all came to be and you can understand it. It is part of what makes Voldemort the complete, solid, and compelling villain that he is.

You know what is absolutely disappointing? The fact that none of this rich and compelling backstory is featured in the movie! Okay, almost none of it - there's that one memory with Slughorn that was done halfway decently... But where is everything else? The "Half-Blood Prince" is basically about Voldemort and the Gaunts and Voldemort is in one memory, while the Gaunt family isn't even mentioned! His backstory is the whole point and the core of how they hope to defeat him and this is how much attention it got? In exchange for what? Cringy, angsty teenage romance?! Just... No!

The teenage romances are present in the book as well and they are given a fair amount of time, but they're not given nearly as much attention compared to Voldemort's story and they're more substantial instead of shallow, superficial filler scenes! In the book, it feels like the most gravity is given to Voldemort's story, to the mystery behind the Half-Blood Prince, to the mystery behind Draco rather than to the romances. In the book, the romantic subplots are exactly this - subplots - they keep happening on the side, as the actual plot progresses, and they're great just like that; side stories, subplots! Whereas in the movie, the romantic sub-plots are being over-utilized at the expense of the actual plot. Why wasn't Voldemort's mother ever mentioned? His father, his fascination with important artifacts, and why he picked them amongst other objects to be his Horcruxes? All these were fascinating to read about, not to mention crucial for the story, so we should have more of these in the movie.

Talking about Voldemort's mother, I kind of felt sorry for her and what she had gone through. This doesn't in any way justify her bewitching his father, what she did was inherently and undoubtedly wrong, but again, even though it is wrong, you can understand her and where she's coming from. For her character, it makes sense that she acts this way because she doesn't know any better. She was infatuated with him and saw nothing wrong with her actions. But she only managed to hurt herself even more with her actions. By the time she understands she has made a mistake and tries to correct it, hoping that Tom Riddle senior will reciprocate her feelings, she finds out that there is no possible positive outcome for her. She doesn't only lose the man she was in love with, but her family as well (which was not much of a family, to begin with, but that's probably beside the point), and she is left abandoned and alone in the world. She has known nothing but abuse and neglect by her family, rejection by her love interest, and is now left alone, penniless, and helpless with a baby in her belly. I can't help but feel deeply sorry for her tragic life and her even more tragic fate! 

On the other end, I felt absolutely appalled and infuriated by the rest of the Gaunt family! Rowling knows her characters well and does a great job portraying them not only descriptively, but also in a way that evokes strong feelings. Morphin and Marvolo both disgusted me and I was glad that they met the ending they deserved! In the hands of their descendant! Again, you can see why Voldemort despises the lot of them and how he struggled to "climb" above them. Anyway, getting on...

I love that we finally get a glimpse of who Snape was and how he was as a student through his forgotten book. Of course, this glimpse we get to see of him will leave a different impression on the reader depending on how familiar they are with the story. I, for example, had watched the movies before reading the books and I had been spoiled for a great deal of the story. So when I was reading the book - knowing the outcome beforehand - I could read between the lines, see all the different layers, and spot the "crumbs" that had been sprinkled along the way, which I would not have been able to detect if I had no idea about the truth. I kept imagining what I would have thought and how I would have felt if it was my first contact with the story. My reactions, thoughts, and impressions of the characters would have been entirely different. The whole book would have been an entirely different experience.

Anyway, it's great to finally know that Snape was a good student, kind of a prodigy as it seems. He was creative enough to figure out all these things about potions and create his own spells from such a young age, and at the same time, he was malicious enough to create such an evil spell. You can see how dedicated he was and how much he loved magic. It was also very interesting for me to see him teaching Defense Against the Dark Arts for the first time. The scene of his first lesson was mysterious and captivating to me; we finally get to see his fascination with the subject, his affinity for the Dark Arts, and why he would actually be a great teacher for it. 

Snape is actually one of my favorite characters, if not my most favorite character, in the Harry Potter universe. He is immensely interesting, layered, multi-dimensional, and generally fascinating to read about. He's by no means a great person, he has flaws and problems and has made big mistakes. I can see all of his different sides clearly, I'm not idealizing him and I'm not blind to his dubious nature. In fact, this dubious nature and his grey morality are some of the things I love more about him and about fictional characters in general. I enjoy reading about him and his life, even in the moments when he makes me hate him. He's one of those characters in fiction that I wish I could have written myself. His role in this book is big and important, not to mention ambiguous and controversial - more so than ever before - and this makes him even more fascinating to me.

I like Draco's sub-plot in this book; it is dark, mysterious, and thrilling and it was refreshing to see Harry finally be right about something 😂 . What I like more about it is how you see Draco gradually change throughout the story and everything he goes through - all of which culminates in this book. The change may not be big, or obvious yet, but I believe this is the starting point for a different life for him. 

Draco realizes that he's been lied to his whole life. He thought that he was supposed to be this death eater and make his father proud, but he realizes this is actually not true. This isn't what he was meant to be at all, he's not made for it. He doesn't want it, he's scared for his and his family's lives and, by the middle of the story and toward the end, he becomes increasingly more hesitant, he only does it because his life depends on it. He slowly comes to the realization that he's not actually meant to be a death eater, that there is something else inside of him. By the time we get to the scene where he's crying in the bathroom, you get from hating Draco and feeling infuriated by his cockiness to a point where you actually feel sorry for him. I felt sad and pity for him and I knew by that point, that no matter how dark things he'd choose to do, he wasn't completely beyond saving. It's heartbreaking to see his struggle, his confusion, and how this whole thing slowly destroys him.

Harry feels a lot more interesting in this book. He feels more mature like he can finally stand on his own feet and be more independent and more determined. I like him more as time passes, not that he ever was particularly unlikable, he was always nice, but he gets better. 

The relationships between the characters are great. They feel a lot better and more natural than in the movies where they felt awkward. The relationship between Harry and Ginny evolves nicely and naturally and even though I couldn't care about its portrayal in the movies, in the book it's pretty wholesome. Especially the scene of their first kiss is adorable and it baffles me why it wasn't included in the movie! The scene was simple, it could be made short and it would have been so much cuter than what we got!

The relationship between Ron and Hermione is a lot nicer in the book too. The romance between them feels inevitable, like it was meant to be, like it couldn't be any other way and I love this. I have to admit though, I did find the final scene between Harry and Ginny (at Dumbledore's funeral) a bit cringy. 

I didn't care much about the Tonks-Lupin pairing, but it wasn't bad either, just kinda meh for me...

I never really liked Fleur, but I also didn't hate her and I couldn't understand the hate Ginny and Molly had for her and to the point they had it. I was glad that she proved them wrong in the end and proved that she really loved Bill and was willing to stay by him. She was fierce in this scene, the scene itself was great, it had a lovely outcome (as Molly finally accepts her) and I found new respect for her.

I really liked Slughorn; I thought he was so much fun and he was also an interesting character with a lot to offer to the characters and the story. The scene where Harry tries to get the memory from him was both hilarious and smart at the same time! I enjoyed it thoroughly.

Dumbledore's death is depressing. I can only imagine what reading it would feel like to someone who's not familiar with the story. It wasn't shocking for me, because not only was I familiar with it, but also because I think it was foreshadowed quite a bit. Still, this doesn't make it any less tragic. Specifically, the part where they find his body is chilling and heartbreaking. The scene of the murder itself is full of suspense and emotions and, once again, hidden meanings. Draco's hesitation, Snape's apparent resentment, Harry's inability to do anything... all of it is great! 

And it was all so perfectly portrayed in the movie as well! For all its flaws and inaccuracies, this movie has a few redeeming qualities. The actors, for one thing, play their roles perfectly, they all display great acting. And, more specifically, Alan Rickman (R.I.P.) is phenomenal as Professor Snape! Every scene he's in is precious, and especially the murder scene is absolutely flawless! It's just a bit different from the book, but it's a great interpretation of the original, nonetheless. In fact, the moment where he confesses to Harry that he is the Half-Blood Prince is even better in the movie!

***END OF SPOILERS***MY RATING***

I don't know what else there is for me to say about this book without repeating myself and without just saying how great it was over and over again. This post is already too long as it is... 😅 It was a great book, definitely my favorite in the series so far and it could also probably rank among my favorite books in general. The writing is great, the plot is rich, and the characters are perfectly developed... I can't find a fault with it, which is why I rated it 5/5*. It deserves this rating and it deserves your time and attention. 

The build-up from all the previous books is definitely worth it when you get to this book and to what seems to be the fascinating ending of the next book. I've already started reading "The Deathly Hallows" and I can't wait to dive deeper into it.

Until then...

Book Adaptation Tag || Who did it better book or movie?

Hello book friends! 

I wanted to make a fun post this time and I haven't done a tag in a long while so when I found this one I couldn't resist. I found it on The never-ending chronicles of Jawahir the bookworm so you can check it out there. So, here we go...

What is the last book adaptation movie you watched?

The last book adaptation I watched is "Bridgerton" - which by the way is adapted into a series, not a movie - and which is inspired by the "Bridgerton" books by Julia Quinn. I enjoyed the first season very much and I'm now watching the second season which is inspired by the second book in the series. However, I haven't read any of the books yet, so I can't form an opinion about them.

What book-to-movie adaptation are you most excited about?

This will definitely have to be "Dune" which, even though has been released for some time now, I have not watched yet and I'm very excited to watch it soon.

Which upcoming book movie will you definitely not see?

I don't have an answer for this one, both because I cannot think of a story I wouldn't care about enough to watch and because even if I did, I would still most probably give it a try since I really enjoy adaptations and I like to be able to form an opinion on them.

Which book movie would you never watch again?

That's easy... "Paper Towns" by John Green. I generally like John Green, but this book just wasn't for me and neither was the movie. If anything, it was even worse and I don't think I'm going to give either one of them a second try.

Is there a movie you saw that made you want to read the book if you had not yet?

This will have to be "The handmaid's tale". This one is also a series, not a movie and it's based on the iconic book of Margaret Atwood. I absolutely loved the TV series, it is among my favorites, and from the first moment I started watching it, it made me want to read the book as well. This book is so very much up my alley; it is dystopian, it talks about women, about freedom and politics, it is scary and its very concept makes your hair stand on edge. So, I will most definitely read it soon!

Conversely, is there a movie that made you never want to read the book?

I will have to say the "Percy Jackson" series by Rick Riordan. The first movie is not all that bad, even though I've had not the best comments about it and I know that it's not a very faithful adaptation, I still didn't hate it, I kind of enjoyed it. But I also had my issues with it and, by the end, I was sure I wasn't interested in reading the books, even though I have heard the best about them and I know they have a very big audience that loves them. Maybe it's because this series just wasn't for me, maybe it could be because I'm Greek and my idea of Greek-mythology-inspired stories is biased, or maybe I'm just a bit old for them... Whatever the reason, I don't really care about reading them.

Have you ever left the theater because the movie adaptation was so bad?

No, so far I have not left the theater because of a bad movie - adaptation or not.

Do you prefer to watch the movie first or read the book first?

This is probably an unpopular opinion, but I don't mind at all, both are fine with me and I can enjoy either one equally for different reasons. But if I absolutely had to choose, I'd say that book first is probably the slightly preferable choice in most cases.

How do you feel about movie adaptations that age characters up? (ex. Characters that are in middle school, but in the movies, they’re all 18+)

It depends on the story, the movie, the actors, and the reason behind the choices. Usually, I prefer accurate adaptations and casting choices, but if there is a good reason I could understand it.

Do you get angry when the actors don’t look like you thought the characters would?

I can't say I get angry but I definitely feel disappointed. It is a little bit frustrating when the characters look nothing like the description. I don't mind small changes or small differences but when there is a big difference or if the detail that is changed is very crucial to the plot then I will get disappointed.

Is there a movie you liked better than its book?

There are actually a few movies I enjoyed more than the books. One of them is "The Fault in our Stars". The is a very good book and I loved it, but I think I enjoyed the movie a bit more. Still, both of them were great and are among my favorites! But, for me, I lean a bit more toward the movie.

Then there are "The Maze Runner" books. Again, I quite enjoyed the books I thought they were good but I like the movies even more and I think they did a very good job adapting the story. The movies are quite different from the books, especially the "Scorch Trials" and "Death Cure" movies, but I believe that the changes that were made were made for the better and only improved the story. The things that were cut or changed improved the story a great deal and made it more interesting, so, in the end, I enjoyed the movies much more than the books. 

Name a book that you would love to see as a movie.

The "Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes" by Suzzanne Collins has come out recently and I am a huge fan of anything related to the "Hunger Games". I have read the original trilogy and I have watched the movie repeatedly and I absolutely love them all. Additionally, these adaptations are probably the most faithful book to movie adaptations, the attention with which they were made, and the work done with them was phenomenal. Naturally, I am eager to read this book as well and I hope it gets turned into a movie because I can't wait to watch it!

So, these were my answers, I hope you liked them and enjoyed this post. If you liked this tag, feel free to do it yourself and feel free to tag me or show them to me! You can also tell me your answers and opinions down in the comments, I'll be really interested to hear them and discuss them with you!

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Some More Bookish Pet Peeves || Writing, Tropes and Characters

 Hello friends!

In the past, I've made a post about my bookish pet peeves, which was very fun and I thought that it is pretty inclusive. The more I thought about it, however, I realized that this particular post talks only about my pet peeves that have to do with the book as an object and its physical state and... well-being... If you haven't already seen this post and want to get an idea, you can check it out here. But I have not talked about the pet peeves that I have that have to do with the plot, story, tropes, structure, and generally the contents of a book. So, here's a separate post about this... 

1. The insta-love trope: It's probably the most unrealistic and annoying plot that's also so overused in fiction. I mean, don't get me wrong, I'm all about suddenly falling in love, the infatuation you may feel with a specific person, the intense stares, the unexplainable feeling that this might be the one, etc... It is a strong, unique, and unbelievable feeling and it is also part of the beauty of falling in love. But this situation is far from what we have come to see portrayed so often, which is that, all of a sudden, after 3 whole days of knowing each other, the characters are ready to die for each other, because they cannot possibly imagine their lives apart! Not only is it unrealistic and not believable at all, but it's also a trope that inherently lacks depth, since we don't get to see the characters get to know each other, interact, and bond before they actually become a couple/fall in love. However much you try to convince me afterward that they actually have a deep emotional connection, I'm going to find it impossible to believe. It doesn't help with the character development and general arch of the story; it usually makes the pacing strangely quick at the beginning and slower closer to the ending, and it usually doesn't give as much satisfaction to the reader - at least in my experience. There could be, of course, exceptions to that, like if there is a magical element to the story, an element of time travel or mind-reading, or maybe even a life-threatening situation and the characters could die at any moment so this pressure makes them feel more intensely and more quickly. These exceptions however are not common and even when they occur, they should be executed well.
2. Poor editing: I used to think that editing wasn't such a big deal in a book, but I have come to really appreciate it as years go by and especially the more I get into writing myself. A good editor can save your work as much as a poor editor can destroy even the best of stories. 
3. Cliche or repeated and overused phrases: I'm sure that even reading this has made you think of at least one overused phrase that you've stumbled upon multiple times. It's not my worst pet peeve, I do, however, feel annoyed by this occasionally and it's something that I think can very easily be fixed.
4. When there is no synopsis on the cover, only reviews and comments about the book: While it may be interesting to see what people thought of a book, the purpose of anything being written on the cover of a book is to give you a clue what the story is about. Most readers want to know what they are buying and getting into and those comments may shadow the atmosphere or type of the story, but don't say much more than that. No, I prefer my synopsis there on the back, classic and helpful.
5. When the magical solution suddenly appears out of nowhere right at the moment of greatest need in the story even when the said solution has never been mentioned before. I think this one is self-explanatory. It's usually a sign of poor, sloppy, or lazy writing and it's rarely good. It feels convenient and often anti-climactic as well, as it makes you feel like "a wizard saved the day" instead of the hero.
6. Plot-armor: When particular character/characters - usually the main characters or the hero - are steadily untouched by any danger! They fight in battles, they come face to face with murderers and they run from the mafia day in and day out, yet they always come out of the mess with nothing but a scratch. This becomes even worse when every other character suffers from the consequences of their actions or the general situations in the story, yet this/these specific character(s) are still untouchable! It feels easy, sloppy, and cheap! Every character should have to deal with the consequences of their actions/decisions and struggle according to the situations their in.
7. Over-powered heroes and/or underwhelming villains: I don't need to say more about this. Few things kill the dynamic between a hero and a villain more than these two things. A good dynamic between the hero and the villain can bring all the conflict and intensity to the story and create compelling story/character arcs!
8. Resurrections: It's not my worst pet peeve and there might be a couple of occasions where I might enjoy a nice resurrection, but most of the time I hate it. It is usually a sign of lazy writing, or of having written yourself into a corner and trying desperately to undo it. I do believe that 98% of the time when a character dies they should remain dead unless their coming back not only makes absolute sense but also has a stronger impact than their death had. Character deaths are among the strongest and most impactful things that can happen in a story and they should be utilized correctly and not as an easy and cheap mechanism for shock factor or to make readers cry. So, as long as the death is written correctly and has the impact it's supposed to, the resurrection is most probably going to kill the moments that preceded it.

I have to say, I expected this post to be rather short, but then I got carried away and it ended up longer than I expected. Nevertheless, I'm really glad I've been able to finally have laid down here all of my thoughts and I hope you liked this post as much as I did. As always, feel free to share your thoughts with me down in the comments...

Until the next time...

Thank you for reading!

4 More Children's Books Reviews

 Hello friends!

I really enjoy reviewing and writing about children's books, so I decided to make one more post like these. If you'd like to read my opinions on some more children's books, you can check my previous relevant post here. 

Here are the last 4 children's books I read with my son and how I felt about them...

"Frog is Frog" by Max Velthuijs

This is a very cute little story that talks about how everyone is different and it's okay. Everyone has their own strong points, abilities, and characteristics and we should be proud of who we are and what we're able to do. Focusing on other people's strong points or advantages doesn't only feel bad, but also doesn't help unravel who you really are and your actual unique qualities. It carries a beautiful message for children and it does it in a simple and fun way. I gave it 3/5*. Out of the three books, I think that this one was my favorite, the one that resonated more with me and made me feel and think.

"Frog in Love" by Max Velthuijs

One thing I like about this series is how it uses different animals to show the different people in the society. So Frog is in love and his loved one is different, but of course, it doesn't matter to him. This book deals with many complicated emotions and shows how in love and friendship what matters is not our differences, but the things that connect us. It also shows how other people's opinions won't mean anything if your love is honest and real. It is a heart-warming story. I gave this one 3/5* as well and out of the three books in the series, this was definitely the sweetest.

"Frog and a Very Special Day" by Max Velthuijs

Frog has been promised that today is a very special day, but can't seem to figure out why, so he goes around trying to find out. If I had to find a message in this book, I guess it would be that we can make our "special days" by ourselves and not simply by waiting for something extraordinary to happen out of the blue, or maybe that good and thoughtful friends are what make a day special. Out of the 3 books that I've read from this series so far, this one was my least favorite. This is why I gave it a lower rating 2/5*. But it is still a fun little read.

"Ouch!" by Ragnhild Scamell

This book was definitely the one my son and I had the most fun reading and came back to re-read it a couple of times. It tells a story about a Hedgehog who has just finished building his nest but has been caught and keeps getting in trouble as different things get stuck on him and his friends hurry to his aid. The illustrations are simply beautiful and very much to my taste, I really enjoyed looking at them. The story is simple, but it is fun and the writing is wordy and very enjoyable overall. I think that it would be a nice way for children to get in touch with and start learning numbers because every page keeps counting how many things got stuck on the Hedgehog. My son is 5 years old, but this one could definitely be read to younger children as well, as it is simple and fun. I gave it 3/5*, even though it feels more like a 3,5*, but not quite a 4* either.

Overall, all of them were nice and I would recommend them if you're looking for something to read with your children. I would love to hear your opinions about these books if you've read them and I'd also love to hear any recommendations you might have.

Thank you for reading!

My favorite quotes and why I love them/what they mean to me || Part I

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Hello, my awesome book friends!

I have wanted for some time now to make a post like this where I talk about some of my favorite quotes in fiction and talk a little bit about them. I didn't want to just drop some quotes anyone can simply Google, I wanted to share why I love them, what they mean to me, what kind of thoughts and feelings they spark inside me and, maybe, find people who agree or find my thoughts interesting in some way. 

So, I went on my Goodreads account and started reading every single one of my 300 plus quotes, trying to find my favorites, the most unique, those that stand out, and those that really mean something, not just those that I enjoyed or found funny. The more I searched, however, the more quotes I found and I suddenly realized that there was no possible way that I could talk about all of them in one single post, so I gathered some of them for today's post and there will be some more of them coming in a future post soon. The quotes are in no particular order, they don't indicate preference or significance. If anything, the order is completely random depending on which ones I found first... There is also no particular "motif" in the quotes I've picked, some are more poetic, some are simpler, some come from classic works and others come from contemporary fiction... A little bit of everything, really. So, with all of that being said, here we go...

"We accept the love we think we deserve."

This quote is from "The Perks of Being a Wallflower" which is a book I have never read, so I cannot comment on how well the quote goes with the rest of the text or how well it reads. I have, however,  watched the movie and this was where I heard the quote and it immediately rang a bell inside my head. Because this is so deeply and fundamentally true! 

We are so ready to believe our own misconceptions or preconceived notions about ourselves and so ready to value (or not) ourselves accordingly. We tend to believe we deserve this thing or this type of behavior and this thing, this behavior, or this particular type of person is the one we tend to attract more or to accept more when we attract it. We know we deserve this when in reality we may deserve much better, but we still are willing and ready to accept the love we think we deserve rather than the love we might actually deserve but aren't strong/courageous/ready enough to go for. We are scared to claim what is right or good for us because that is what we think we deserve. We don't realize it, but most of the time in life we accept that which we think we deserve, nothing more, nothing less and it's why we get what we get in life. It is a direct connection to how we value ourselves. Such a true statement...

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"It is our choices that show what we truly are far more than our abilities."

This quote is widely known and recognized not only by Harry Potter fans but by a wide audience who has read it in the HP books or seen it in the movies.

This line is said by Dumbledore, the main mentor figure in the Harry Potter universe, it goes nicely with the rest of the text and it is proved to be right time and time again throughout the story. The characters, of course, have unique abilities and cool skills and it is shown throughout, but it is really their choices that make them stand out and prove what they really are inside.

It is the same in real life, our choices are what make a difference. Our abilities may be great and unique, but, in the end, what counts is if and how you chose to use them, how you chose to act in life. Whether you have the courage to step up, use your abilities in the best way possible and for the best means possible, and whether you have the ability to understand and judge when and how to act accordingly. It all comes down to choices, so, in a way, our ability to choose and to make our path in life is the greatest of all our strengths and one of our biggest privileges. It's also an important thing to understand because it proves that no matter how many or great talents you have compared to the next person, all that matters in life is what you choose to do with the cards you were given. So, nobody is inherently better off than anyone else, really, and anyone can end up in a better place regardless if they have more or fewer skills, only depending on their choices. Your abilities and talents are things you were given, or skills you developed, they are part of you, but they are not who you are, your character... No... Who we are is our choices, our characters and personalities are the sum of our choices.

It is a simple quote really, still such a powerful and truthful one and I think it is beautiful. 

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"It takes 10 times as long to put yourself back together as it does to fall apart."

Another widely-known quote, this time from the Hunger Games trilogy, which also happens to be one of my favorite stories in general.

This quote carries so much meaning and has so many layers and possible explanations because it refers to Finnick's past trauma that he had to get over, his current situation threatening to destroy him again, it also refers to Katniss' situation, Peeta's struggle and it can pretty much be applied to every other character within the series as most of them are trying hard to deal with their own traumatic experiences. Finnick is warning Katniss to try and not fall apart because getting back together after this could take all the courage and strength in the world and a long time of working with yourself. He tells her that there is a coming back from dark places but it is a hard way.

This quote is also so deeply and painfully true in real life and I think it's a quote that most of us can feel deep inside. We've all been through some trauma in life, we've all been through hard times and many of us have probably at some point or another fallen apart. So we can understand how hard it is to try to put yourself back together after falling apart and how much of a toll that falling apart takes on your mind and soul. We can also feel how it is to fight against falling apart, to try to keep yourself together in hard times, because we've gone through it in the past and don't want to go through it again. To put yourself back together you may need not only time and effort, but you may also need professional help and a lot of support from people who care about you, and working on yourself may be the task of a lifetime.

Suzanne Collins has written a wonderful story and the more I read it, the more I realize that this woman really knows about trauma and how to write about it in a way that is not disturbing, insulting, or melodramatic, but in a way that is realistic and impactful. This is one of the few quotes that show it and I love it! It's strong, real, and to the point.

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"Oh, to reach the point of death and realize one has not lived at all."

A simple quote really, but very real and impactful. I cannot remember where I read it but it was written by Henry David Thoreau.

It's so common for us to be overconsumed by our routine and problems, that we kind of forget to really live. Sometimes we forget what really counts, and what is important in life and we tend to focus on the unimportant and forget to live. And how horrible would it be for anyone to reach the point of death just to realize that they have not lived at all, that they have wasted their life on things that didn't really matter. It is a scary thought, for me at least and this is why I was caught off-guard when I read this quote and I kept staring at it and kept thinking about life.

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"A mind needs books like a sword needs a whetstone if it is to keep its edge."

Okay, what can anyone say about this quote? It's simply a masterpiece just like most of Martin's writing. The layers, the depth of meaning, and the artful use of the simile are just a few of the reasons I love it. 

It compares two seemingly different things (the sword and the mind), which even though vastly different, can both be used as "weapons" in one way or the other, and two also very different things (books and the whetstone) which can both be used to sharpen said "weapon" making the first obvious point that any skill - physical or mental - needs exercise and "sharpening". In a second layer of interpretation, this quote is also used to juxtapose the physical capabilities which in this story and instance are being represented by Jamie - and possibly any other capable fighters - and the mental abilities which in turn are represented by Tyrion, and consequently, to juxtapose Jamie with Tyrion and the fact that even though they are brothers, they are complete opposites. Jamie and Tyrion represent two different kinds of minds and two different kinds of "fighters" and each of them chooses their own "weapons" in battle and, in turn, this quote also talks about those two opposing types of fighting. It shows how some people will pick one way to deal with things, while some other people will choose differently. It also shows how one person's strengths can be someone else's weaknesses and vice versa.

This quote goes deeper than you may think at a first read and the more you look into it, the more meaning you could possibly find. This is one of the reasons I love it. It's filled with all the wisdom that has been painfully acquired by Tyrion through years and years of not fitting in and struggling to keep up in an unfair - for him at least - world, and this is also something that many of us can relate to. And, to top it all off, this is a quote about books! I mean, how could any book-loving person not love it even just for this...

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This post is one of my favorites I've created and I'd love to go on, but I think it's getting too long, so I will leave the rest of my quotes for the next one. I would love to hear your favorite quotes from fiction and why you love them! Feel free to leave a comment and follow if you enjoy my content!

Thank you for reading!

Until the next time!